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Virginia Grandparents Rights

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What Custody and Visitation Rights Virginia Grandparents Have?

Virginia's grandparent visitation rights are enshrined in Virginia Code § 20-124.2 B2. This statute outlines situations where grandparents can petition the court for visitation:

  • Deceased parent: If a child's parent passes away, the surviving parent's parents can petition for visitation.
  • Divorce or separation: When parents divorce or legally separate, grandparents can seek visitation rights.
  • Custody disputes: Grandparents can petition for visitation if a child is in the legal custody of someone other than a parent.
  • Child placed outside parental home: If a child is in foster care or another non-parental setting, grandparents can seek visitation.
  • "Psychological parent" status: In specific circumstances where grandparents have acted as primary caregivers for an extended period, they may be considered "psychological parents" and granted visitation rights.

 

The Paramount Factor: The Child's Best Interests

It's crucial to understand that Virginia courts prioritize the child's best interests above all else. The landmark case of Grice v. Morrison (1991) established this principle, emphasizing that visitation should only be granted if it demonstrably benefits the child. 

To ascertain the child's best interests, the court may take into account the following factors, as outlined in Virginia Code Section 20-124.3:

  1. The child's reasonable preference
  2. The age, mental condition, and physical health of the child
  3. The age, mental condition, and physical health of each parent
  4. The existing relationship between the parents and child
  5. The child's needs
  6. The child's relationship with other siblings, peers, and extended family members
  7. Each parent's role or responsibility in caring for the child
  8. The ability of each parent to actively support the child's contact and relationship with the other parent
  9. Each parent's willingness to maintain a close and continuing relationship with the child
  10. Each parent's ability to cooperatively resolve disputes regarding matters that affect the child
  11. Any history of domestic violence, family abuse, sexual abuse, child abuse, neglect, or abandonment
  12. Other factors deemed necessary by the court

 

How to Build a Strong Grandparents' Rights Case

To convince the court of your case, you need to provide clear evidence of a close and consistent relationship with your grandchild. This can include:

  • Documentation: Photos, videos, emails, and travel receipts demonstrating consistent involvement in your grandchild's life.
  • Witness testimonies: Statements from teachers, neighbors, or other family members supporting your relationship with your grandchild.
  • Expert opinions: In certain cases, a child psychologist or other expert may offer testimony about the benefits of grandparent visitation for the child.
  • Seeking Legal Guidance: Navigating the Complexities: Navigating the legal intricacies of grandparent rights can be challenging. Consulting with an experienced family law attorney specializing in grandparent rights is crucial. They can help you understand your options, prepare a strong case, and represent you in court if necessary.

 

Can Grandparents in Viginia Get Sole, Joint Legal or Physical Custody?

 

Virginia statute allows the court to grant visitation or custody rights (which can be sole or joint legal or physical custody) to a person other than the parents when the third party has a “legitimate interest,” which by definition includes a grandparent. The court must still “give due regard to the primacy of the parent-child relationship,” but if the best interest of the child in having grandparent visitation is shown by clear and convincing evidence, the court may award visitation or custody.

 

What Happens When a Parent Objects to a Grandparents' Custody or Visitation?

 

If both parents are fit (or the surviving parent if the other has died) and object to a grandparent’s request for visitation, there is a higher standard to meet. In such a situation, the Virginia Supreme Court requires that before the judge looks at the best interest of the child, he or she must first determine whether denying the visitation would harm the child’s welfare.  

 

If the child would not actually be harmed by not seeing the grandparent, the visitation is denied because of the parental objection. If the child would be harmed if it did not spend time with the grandparent, the court will then decide the request based on the child’s best interest.

 

If only one fit parent objects to grandparent visitation and the other does not, then the court does not have to first look at whether the child would be harmed by denying visitation. Instead, it looks immediately at whether visitation is in the child’s best interest.

 

Can Grandparents' Rights be Terminated?

Sadly, there are situations where a grandparent's legitimate interest may be terminated. This includes scenarios where the parental rights of the grandchild's parent have been terminated or if the child has been adopted, except in cases of stepparent adoption.

 

FAQ: Grandparent Visitation Rights in Virginia

 

Q: Do I have automatic visitation rights to my grandchildren in Virginia?

A: No, Virginia law prioritizes parental rights. You don't have automatic visitation rights, but you can petition the court for visitation under specific circumstances outlined in Virginia Code § 20-124.2 B2. These include:

  • Deceased parent: If a child's parent has passed away, you may petition for visitation.
  • Divorce or separation: When parents divorce or legally separate, you can seek visitation rights.
  • Custody disputes: If a child is in the legal custody of someone other than a parent, you can petition for visitation.
  • Child placed outside parental home: If a child is in foster care or another non-parental setting, you may seek visitation.
  • "Psychological parent" status: In specific situations where you've acted as a primary caregiver for an extended period, you may be considered a "psychological parent" and granted visitation rights.

 

Q: How do I petition the court for visitation?

A: Consulting with an experienced family law attorney specializing in grandparent rights is crucial. They can guide you through the legal process, including filing the necessary paperwork and presenting your case in court.

 

Q: What factors does the court consider when deciding on visitation?

A: The court's primary concern is the child's best interests. They consider factors such as:

  • Your relationship with the child.
  • The child's age and needs.
  • The reasons why you're seeking visitation.
  • The potential impact of visitation on the child and the family.
  • Existing custody arrangements (if applicable).

 

Q: What resources are available to help me as a grandparent in Virginia?

A: Several resources can provide support and guidance:

 

Q: What can I do to strengthen my relationship with my grandchildren?

A: Even if you don't have formal visitation rights, you can take steps to stay connected:

  • Stay in touch through regular phone calls, video chats, and letters.
  • Offer to help out with childcare or errands.
  • Plan special outings and activities together.
  • Share stories and family traditions.

 

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Warning:  This post is neither financial, health, legal, or personal advice nor a substitute for the advice offered by a professional. These are serious matters, and the help of a professional is recommended as it can impact your future.

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